When I started seminary, I
had a “commuter room” on campus for a night or two. My roommate for the first
night was a student from Korea who was on his final year of seminary. English
was his second language, and he had learned to boldly ask native speakers to
edit his papers, for he wanted to get the most out of his education and do his
absolute best.
So, since I was his
roommate, he asked me to edit his papers that semester.
Apparently, I did a pretty
good job, because a few weeks later, while sitting on an outdoor bench near the
dorm’s front doors, another Korean student, whom I did not know, came up to me
and said, “Are you Jon? Could you edit my paper for me?” Word got around, and I
quickly found an on-campus ministry as a supplier of feedback on papers. (And,
wanting to be helpful, I did it for free.)
Most of us don’t seek out
correction. Our culture seems to value feedback and correction less and less as
time goes on. It takes a special motivation of the heart to desire correction…
and while it might seem strange in our world today, it is absolutely part of
faith.
In the Book of Proverbs, the
first chapter, we find an invitation to seek out and treasure the wisdom in the
rest of the book, and we also discover an invitation to “the strange desire for
correction” as “Lady Wisdom” speaks:
You
should respond when I correct you.
Look,
I’ll pour out my spirit on you.
I’ll
reveal my words to you.
I
invited you, but you rejected me;
I
stretched out my hand to you,
but you paid no attention.
but you paid no attention.
You
ignored all my advice,
and you didn’t want me to correct you.
and you didn’t want me to correct you.
(Proverbs
1:23-25)
Seeking out feedback, and
even correction, is a biblical, faithful, and therefore counter-cultural,
aspect of the Christian faith. The world desperately needs us to model this way
of life. I covenant to do my best to both seek it, and provide it (I was asked
to do this recently, and am thankful to have been asked) – and I ask you to do
the same – making sure that love, grace, and humility govern both the giving
and receiving of correction.
Continue
encouraging each other
and building each other up,
and building each other up,
just
like you are doing already.
(1 Thessalonians 5:11)
(1 Thessalonians 5:11)
And maybe, just maybe, we
can develop and show the world “the strange desire for correction.”
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